It is said to look at a person of the opposite sex while with your mate is disrespectful...if they see it. But then society changed the rules and said, "You can look, but don't touch!" So I take it that if you're CAUGHT looking, that the other rule now applies...right? WRONG! I thought I was right too, but my chick told me otherwise.. I was told that I was being "BLATANTLY DISRESPECTFUL" Really? What part of the game is this? Since when do we stop being human? YOU are gonna look as well as I am gonna look. WE ARE HUMAN! That's why we get dressed up! We want to be seen! The girl did her job, I looked.. SO! I was with all my goons and I know you looked at all them the way I looked at yo friend, but because you caught me, I'M THE BAD GUY?! #BitchPlease! No matter how sexy a woman is, I don't want to live in a world with only women that look like her. Just as you women wouldn't want to live in a world with men that just look like me. And at the end of the day, I'm leaving with YOUR DUMB ASS ANYWAY! So why the attitude? So you looked up and saw me looking? SO! You didn't see me staring. *TypicalNiggaStatement in 5..4..3..2..1. Shit ain't like I Fucked her! A person's insecurity will ALWAYS get the best of them as long as they allow it. Ladies?? Fellas?? Don't be insecure. Define insecurity. Pay attention that you don't become it!
I feel as though you can look,just don't look more than a few seconds. If you do you're initiating something. But if your mate is bothered by that sort if thing, you shouldn't look longer than a few seconds. Its out of respect for your mate. They may be insecure that way. I try not to look when my wife's looking @ me, but I do look @ the oposite gender espescially if they are extra sexy.
ReplyDeleteMan bro, that shit is so true! Truth be told it's in our DNA to "hunt" or in societies case "look" for potential mates. Back in the cave man days I'm sure one cave dude gorilla plexed many cave broads. It's wired in our DNA. So a little look is just human nature.
ReplyDeleteIt is disrespectful when u look at the opposite sex while with ur mate and get caught cause usually that means u looked more than a few seconds it really becomes disrespectful when its ur mate friend or associate of some sort. Yes we are all human and will look which is ok but when ur mate catches u and its more than a few seconds and u r confronted by it and your statement is "I'm going home with you. Are. Did I sleep with her?" And the fact that u feel it wasn't wrong r u trying to justify it is when it becomes wrong especially when you don't apologize when your mate the one YOU ARE GOING HOME WITH HAS A PROBLEM WITH IT! When it is ur mates friend, coworkers, relative, are associate of some sort is when that person should become OFF LIMITS ARE WHEN IT IS TOTALLY DISRESPECTFUL esp when u have made commets with the looks and think ur mate doesn't know about them! Let's get it together people! Insecurity has nothing to do with it it all about the RESPECT LEVEL.
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